Vacation 2014, Day 7 – Perfect Day

| July 14, 2014

Our last day at the beach couldn’t have been better. The storms blew out and beautiful weather blew in. It was the kind of day that you want for every day at the beach. We started the day by digging Sam a giant hole (again). When Maddox came down he wanted to help her dig her hole but she was feeling a bit possessive so I helped him dig his own giant hole. Later, Maddox thought we should join the holes, so Mark and I, with a little help from the kids, dug a trench joining the holes. They spent so much time running back and forth, it was worth it.

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I made Sam a small sand castle while I was relaxing in my chair and she immediately had to decorate it.

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Grandmom took Sam for a spin (one of her favorite things). I don’t know how she doesn’t get dizzy! Or if she does, she enjoys it!

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Sam had so much fun this day, and so did we all.

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Time for a dip in the water and some wave jumping! It’s funny, when she was little, she used to want to jump the waves so she wouldn’t get wet, now she just does it for fun.

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What a teenage expression – alright, alright, enough with the pictures!

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More spinning!

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The kids had so much fun splashing around. I kept thinking that it isn’t fair that it was our last day – it was too perfect.

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Sam wanted a “Sammy-Daddy project” so they decided to fly her owl kite. She is really good at holding on tight and keeping it in the air. She would move her arm back and forth so it looked like the owl was dancing.

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Up, up and away!

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Sam loves flying kites and doing this special thing with her dad is just what she wanted. If you look really closely near the tops of the photos, you can see her kite.

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Sam let me in on their fun, but just for a minute.

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Whew. Flying kites is hard work. It’s much easier this way!

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Sam did let Maddox have a turn, but a short one!

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Our beach time was coming to a close and my mom snapped this picture of Sam looking at her shadow. Shadows always seem to fascinate Sam. She likes to ask why they are sometimes big, sometimes small, and to make them move.

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Krista, Adam, Maddox, and Ryder were headed home that night, so we had a great take-out dinner from Basilico’s then we headed out for our last night at the Ocean City boardwalk. Sam was so tired from the beach that she fell sound asleep in the car. We plopped her in the stroller and started walking. We couldn’t wake her up for anything – well, almost anything. When Mark poked and prodded her a bit so she could see who was outside the Christmas store, she woke right up!

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Ok, now she was awake and ready to go! It was later than we normally are at the boardwalk, and it was busy as could be. Sam had a blast seeing all the sights.

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This gorilla was one of her favorite sights! She went right up to him to talk. Sam gave him a high five, then showed him her new Minny Mouse doll she just got at the Christmas shop. The gorilla hugged her Minny, which she thought was so cute. When we walked away, Sam asked me if next time we come we could bring him a banana. She thought if she brought him a banana, “I bet he’d give me a hug.”

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Sam remembered French Fry guy from our vacation last year. She was very excited to see him again!

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This salt water taffy man (who Sam kept calling Marshmallow Man) was a big hit. He got to see Minny Mouse too. There were so many silly characters on the boardwalk and she had to stop at them all. The funny singing skeleton at the golf course (who had her hysterical laughing and dancing to Who Let the Dogs Out), the talking crocodile and bird at the other golf course. You name it, she stopped to chat.

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The sun was finally setting and the sky was nice for photos, so of course we stopped! The moon looked HUGE that night and I recall thinking maybe it just seemed that way because we were at the beach. Later, I saw on the news it was actually a “supermoon” which is when the moon is at its closest point to Earth in its orbit. So it was bigger!

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After doing some shopping we made our last stop at the rides. Sam couldn’t wait to get on the train, which is the one thing we didn’t let her do last time we were at the boardwalk. All aboard!

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She asked me if the train goes outside and I told her it did. She said she was thought so, but she was confused because she couldn’t see how the train got out of the inside, she couldn’t see the door. When the train went out, she was thrilled. The sky was dark, the whole amusement park was lit up and everything looked beautiful to her.

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Seeing the Ferris wheel lit was a special treat.

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At the entrance/exit for the train, these guys (for $1.00) move, sing, and play music. Sam remembered them from last year. She danced and danced her heart out to their music.

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Sam really wanted to do the balloon ride again so I told Mark to go with her so he could see how much fun she had. They had a blast!

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After the rides, it was time to go. We had a big day ahead of us the next day coming home, and it was after 10:00. Poor Sam fell asleep in the car.

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Another great year at the beach. Another great vacation. It was full of family, fun, and relaxation. All that said, it was bittersweet for everyone because Sandi wasn’t there. I know we all missed her. She came up in conversation a lot, but always in a good way. Remembering how she loved the sunsets, the seafood, the ice cream on the beach. And mostly, how she loved the time with her family. We will hopefully always continue the tradition of heading to the beach together. It is good for Sam to be with her family, and good for all of us. I do cherish the time away, free of the cares and responsibilities of home, free to be the “fun mom” who is indulgent and lighthearted. I want to carry those feelings of contentment home with me, but it is hard to do. “Real life” gets in the way so fast when you walk in the front door.

Sam, you told me you weren’t ready to go, you were having too much fun. I was too, baby, I was too.

Vacation 2014, Day 6 – Rain, Rain, Go Away!

| July 14, 2014

Thursday the sky did not look friendly. It was our first day thus far on vacation that the beach was pretty much out of the question. The kids were good sports though. They spent some time in the morning playing with Maddox’s new Zingo game. It’s sort of like an easy Bingo, but boy, they had fun! They played it so many times!

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When Zingo got dull, on to the iPad. Sam and Maddox play a lot of the same games so they are always trying to show each other how good they are and what they know how to do.

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It was a lazy morning, but I think we all needed the rest!

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Well, Mark didn’t get much rest….

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A selfie, with Blue Frog!

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We couldn’t spend the whole day at the house, so my mom and I took Sam to an arcade near the house. Sam played so many games. She won 771 tickets! This stack of over 250 she won all by herself, on one game, where you had to drop tokens down a chute at just the right moment to have them land in a truck. I was shocked actually at how well she did. As you can see, she is very pleased with herself! She told me the machine helped her stack her tickets (they just kept coming out of the machine and folding on the floor).

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We did go to the beach later when the rain let up, but it was cold. No rain, but cold! Sam ate ice cream anyway. Nothing is going to stop her from eating her fudgcicles!

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I wrote her name in the sand and asked her to pose, to commemorate the week.

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It was chilly, and we didn’t stay long. It’s no fun at the beach if you are going to stay wrapped in a towel the whole time.

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Maddox didn’t mind a dip in the water, but I don’t think I was getting Sam near it that day.

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After dinner, we tried to go back to the Ocean City boardwalk but it started raining again, and we heard thunder, so it was out of the question. We decided to salvage the night by heading to Yum Yum’s for ice cream. Since we were there, it was time for another turtle visit.

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Sam was disappointed we didn’t go to the boardwalk, but there’s nothing like ice cream to cheer a little girl up!

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We went home fairly early and Mark thought a good old game of spoons was in order. He taught Sam to play and Krista helped Maddox and pretty soon the kids were taking it very seriously. They are quite competitive, these two!

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We called it a night and hoped for a better, sunnier day the next day. Good night everyone!

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Vacation 2014, Day 5 – Let the Games Begin!

| July 14, 2014

Wednesday night we decided to go to the Promenade to let the kids play arcade games together. Sam and Maddox had fun climbing on Adam and grabbing for the iPad before we left.

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As much as she wanted to go play games, the beach wore her out. She wanted a piggyback ride so her dad obliged!

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As soon as we got to the arcade, Sam saw the crane games and she desperately wanted a toy. I am horrible at the money sucking games, but Mark has somehow gotten to be rather proficient so he gave it a go.

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You can see from the enormous hug Mark got that was successful. Blue frog in hand, off Sam went to play more games.

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Maddox loves the arcade too, but I guess what kid wouldn’t with the promise of prizes at the end?

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Basketball is one of Sam’s favorites and Maddox played too. He seemed to be doing very well!

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My favorite is always skeeball. I love that game. I swear, I could dump a mint in there. The longer I play, the better I get, so it’s worth it! Everyone got in on the fun. I think we had every lane!

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Sam tries and tries, but can’t throw/roll the ball hard enough to get it to the end.

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We play this spider game every time we come to Sea Isle with her. This year, she did so much better than last year.

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Mark and his dad played a more grown up arcade game – air hockey. I’m not sure who won, but they were playing pretty fiercely!

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Now it’s Sam’s turn at basketball. She shoots…

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Nothing but net!

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Sam quickly found the game where you just spin the wheel, Price is Right style, and whatever it lands on, you get that many tickets. She got lucky and hit big quite a few times. She loved her big strip of tickets!

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Maddox cashed in his tickets and showed us all of his prizes.

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Sam had her bag of goodies too and before we left, she rode some of the little rides out front.

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Krista and her dad hung out outside for a while. I don’t think arcade games are really Ryder’s speed.

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On the Promenade, we saw this bench and Sam and her Pop Pop took a rest together.

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We made a stop at the turtle, where we always take some photos. Sam loves visiting the turtle and makes him talk in cute little voices. He missed her.

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It was truly a beautiful night to take photos with our beautiful girl.

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Homebound. Tomorrow is another day!

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Vacation 2014, Day 5 – Pirate Ship and Ocean Fun

| July 14, 2014

Wednesday was a bit of a rainy day, just off and on, not enough to really keep us away. We all were determined to stay at the beach. Krista and Sam made some sand castles and we all had our usual fun.

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I know Krista and Adam were happy to be at down the shore!

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Ryder’s first day on the beach! He doesn’t look too impressed yet. Bottles are much more interesting to a baby.

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The kids needed something to do, so Mark dug a giant hole, as they requested.

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It took forever. No matter how deep and wide we made it, the kids wanted it bigger so we dug, dug, dug.

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Eventually, we left it to them to keep digging. It was their hole!

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Finally, when it was done, they took turns jumping in yelling, “Cannonball!”

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And when jumping got boring, running around like maniacs works too. 🙂

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At some point, Sam decided the hole was her pirate ship. We asked her to make her best pirate face. She is so funny. She makes the face and says, “Argghh, mateys!” She kept calling us scallywags.

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Mark, the bad pirate, captured his prey and carted them off to the sea.

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We finally decided to try to ocean on for size. It wasn’t too cold, although in past years it has been warmer!

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Sam loves going in the water now. So few years ago she was scared to death to get her feet wet, now she kept yelling, “Let’s go deeper!”

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Jumping over the waves is one of her favorite things to do.

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Supergirl!

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Not long before we left for day, Maddox and Sam spent some time running in the ocean, chasing waves.

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It was getting chilly and windy and Sam wanted a hide out, so Mark made this one for her to protect her.

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Not a bad fort!

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Maddox found an abandoned boogie board and tried his hand at surfing. I love it! He has the stance just right!

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As usual, the tide came in and started to flood the pirate ship a bit. The kids actually wanted it to flood so they asked me to make a ditch for the water to get in.  Sam and Maddox decided to make their own ocean and Sam added some seaweed.

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They were so happy when the water came up and filled the hole. I thought it would be disappointing, but nope. These kids always surprise me!

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Vacation 2014, Day 4 – The Burke’s Arrive!

| July 14, 2014

Tuesday morning sun was shining bright and Sam couldn’t wait to head for the beach. It takes the adults a while to get moving, what with the packing of the beach bag and all, but Sam couldn’t understand why we couldn’t go right now! Her poor forlorn little face collapsed on the stairs in frustration.

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Finally, we all were there. We found a big horseshoe crab in the sand and Sam had to bring Grandmom down to see what she discovered.

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On the way down to the jetty, shell bags at hand and ready to go! In case you haven’t noticed, the jetty is always the morning destination. It has been since Sam was a baby. At the time, it was the only place we could get her into the water, but now she just loves exploring.

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My little fashionista, posing with her daddy.

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Sam loves to show you everything she finds. She is quite the jetty expert and Grandmom got an education about clams and crabs and whatnot.

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I do like helping her find interesting things, but sometimes, it is nice to just stand back and let her explore and discover on her own.

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Hermit crab!

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It was a bit windier and thus chillier this day than the others and Sam got a bit cold. She asked me if she could sit under a towel but this isn’t exactly what I thought she was going to do!

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What did I say about the wind? Thank goodness for hat straps!

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As the afternoon wears on, the tide always starts to come in and sometimes gets pretty close to our chairs. We were watching the huge hole on the left of the photo that a couple of kids dug stop the water from coming, so Rich dug a trench in front of his chair to stop the water if it came up, sort of as a joke. He was determined not to give in to the tide!

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It was also pretty windy, and he held onto the umbrella to keep it from blowing away. This picture cracks me up – holding the umbrella, trench at his feet. Man vs. Nature!

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Success! The trench worked! Sam had her doubts, but we showed her that her Pop Pop knows a thing or two.

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She put on her daddy’s hat so that she and Pop Pop would match for the photo.

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Later that night, we all relaxed in the house. Krista and Adam were arriving with Maddox and Ryder and we couldn’t wait! Sam told me, “I don’t have to play with you and Grandmom anymore!” Gee, thanks Sam. But I know what she meant. She wants us to play with her constantly and we have to tell her sometimes she needs to play on her own. Maddox will solve that problem!

While we waited, Sam and her Grandmom enjoyed some fresh air on the porch…

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…and she and Pop Pop played checkers. Well, he tried to teach Sam how to play checkers. I don’t think it went all that well.

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The Burke family finally arrived after Adam was done working and it really started to feel like our vacations used to. At least as much as it could without Sandi. 🙁 Sam helped Mark feed Ryder. She looks so bored! It was about 3 seconds after I took this picture that she asked Mark if he could take the bottle back.

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We all walked down to Marita’s for ice cream. Boy, Sam couldn’t get there fast enough!

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Time for bed. Ryder’s getting a snuggle from his Pop Pop.

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It had been a long, busy day and Sam was really wired from all the activity. I had a hard time getting her to settle down to sleep. She kept goofing around, sitting up in bed, interrupting the story I was trying to read. I got very frustrated, as I tend to do, and suddenly Sam said, “Thank you, Mommy.”  I asked her, “Thank you for what? What are you talking about?” I was really confused. She replied, “For all your kisses.” When I gave her a hug, she said, “See, you calmed down. You were all loud and mad and now you calmed down.” Boy. I don’t even know what to say about that. I hate that I get “loud and mad” and am trying very hard to not be that way. Sometimes, it is hard for me to control. I am a loudish sort of person. But I don’t like being that way. And Sam doesn’t like it, obviously, and knows just what she has to do to shut it down. I am glad about that, but sad that she needed to find a way to do so. If that wasn’t a lesson to be learned…

Tomorrow is another day, Sammy. And no one will be loud or mad – just fun, fun, FUN!