Let’s (Not) Call the Whole Thing Off – We’re Having Too Much Fun!

| May 17, 2015

We always try to play music for Sam when we can and not just kid music. I mean, it’s ok, but honestly, I would rather she gain an appreciation for music not made for toddlers. They get enough of those songs in school. Mark and I don’t play as much music as we’d like, but we do try. We play all kinds of things from rock to alternative, to jazz, to standards. She has learned to love Michael Jackson, Frank Sinatra, Mazzy Star, Billie Holliday, 70s folk rock, the Foo Fighters and more. We tend to put music on in the car when she won’t stop talking and Mark and I are trying to have a conversation. Occasionally, she hears a song she really likes and asks us to play it again and again. One of them was Suzanne by Hope Sandoval. Check it out if you never heard it. The other was, Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off, sung by Ella Fitzgerald and Louie Armstrong. Well, that one, we must have played a million times. Sam is trying so hard to learn the words. There are some parts she sings so well, in her adorable little girl voice. She likes when I sing with her. We, of course, do the tomato, to-mah-to part often, but she also asks me to sing the “ice cream part”. I am not sure, frankly, if this is specific to the Ella/Louie version, but it goes like this:

You like vanilla,

I like va-Nell-a,

You sarsparilla,

I sarspar-Ella,

Vanilla,

Va-Nell-a,

Aw, chocolate, strawberry!

Let’s call the whole thing off!

I love singing this with my girl. We are going to keep practicing. She is getting good and she knows so many of the words. A duet is in our future! We’ll be famous!

One other song we played was I’ve Got My Love to Keep Me Warm. Sam thought she was saying she had her “glove” to keep her warm. Sam said, “Why does she just have one glove to keep her warm?” When I corrected her and told her it was “love,” Sam just looked at me, paused, and then said, “Well…that’s just weird.”  Love it.

Sam’s biker gang

| May 15, 2015

Mark has really been working with Sam on bike riding this year. She rode last year, but never quite got the hang of braking or steering or any of those other essentials! Every night they go out and I must say, Sam has gotten so good at riding her bike, she’s ready to start her own biker gang! She brakes really well now (the old back-pedal) and she steers like a champ. She goes around corners and makes tight turns really well now. Sam’s favorite destination is her school. She loves riding to St. Matt’s and cruising around the empty parking lot. Off we go!

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Sam likes to race in the parking lot from one end by the school to the big tree by the sidewalk.

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She is so confident now on her bike. It is a pleasure to see. And she always wears her helmet. Anytime she sees someone riding without one, she is quick to point out the error of their ways!

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Go, Sam, go! You’ll be riding without training wheels in no time.

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Robot Sam

| May 15, 2015

Our crazy girl took it upon herself to become a robot. Here is her outfit (Boo Boo has one too). I think the picture says it all. Need I say more?

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Strawberries!

| May 14, 2015

This year we planted our garden. We did learn a lot from last year’s experience, about what did well and what didn’t. What gets HUGE and what got smothered by more aggressive plants. So we planned accordingly and planted our garden. I wasn’t planning on trying strawberries again this year since last year we got none, but Sam was insistent for some reason so I bought a strawberry plant. I netted it this year to try to keep out the many critters we have in our yard (I suspect that is why we got no fruit last year). Sam was super excited that we got two tiny strawberries that were red and ready to pick.

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I carefully unwound some of the netting…

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…and with a little help from mom…

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Our first two strawberries! Tiny, but definitely perfect!

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Happy Birthday, Daddy!

| May 12, 2015

Happy Birthday to the best dad and husband anyone could ask for. Since we did most of Mark’s birthday presents on Mother’s Day, his actual birthday was a bit of a quiet day, but Sam wanted it to be special. She was very insistent that her Daddy had to have a special present to open, just from her. We went to Target to look around and she saw this trophy for the Best Dad Ever. She loved it because it was topped with tools, and they love fixing things together. I love how she picked it out all on her own, with no input from me. I didn’t even see it. Sam pointed it out to me and thought it was perfect.

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Of course, there had to be cake! This one was Sam-picked as well.

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Samantha really loves her dad, as she should. Mark works so hard and I know he wishes he could spend more time with her, but he does the best he can. And he spends a lot of time with her. More than a lot of dads would. He is exhausted so much of the time, but every night he tries to do something with her, whether it is playing a game, bike riding, taking her to the playground, or whatever else he can think of to do. I think about how many dads can’t be bothered to spend five minutes with their kids and remember think how lucky Sam is. She has a dad who will always be her hero. I can see them going on Daddy-Daughter dates, spending time together, Mark teaching her things. When I was a little girl, I never had that with my own dad (thank God for my mom). But Sam will be different. Her life will be different. Her beliefs about herself will be different, all because she has a dad who thinks she is amazing, who wants to spend time with her. Who wants to teach her things. Sam, you are one lucky girl.

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